# Christian Dating **URL:** https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/c/christian-dating/10.md [Latest](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/latest.md) · [Categories](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/categories.md) · [Tags](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/tags.md) --- ## [About the Christian Dating category](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/about-the-christian-dating-category/469)
**Author:** [@Shepard](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Shepard)\ **Replies:** 0\ **Last updated:** [January 27, 2025, 10:23am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/about-the-christian-dating-category/469 "2025-01-27T10:23:38Z")
Welcome to the Christian Dating & Relationships section, where faith meets fellowship in the journey toward God-centered relationships. This is a supportive space for single Christians to share experiences, seek guidanc… --- ## [Best Books for Christian Dating?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/best-books-for-christian-dating/1844)
**Author:** [@Waiting\_His\_Return](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Waiting_His_Return)\ **Replies:** 14\ **Last updated:** [October 31, 2026, 8:48am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/best-books-for-christian-dating/1844 "2026-10-31T08:48:40Z")
Which books for Christian dating have changed your life or perspective? Anything that helped you find your spouse or even just helped you improve your dating? --- ## [Marrying a Believer or Unbeliever: Whats Your Experience?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/marrying-a-believer-or-unbeliever-whats-your-experience/1738)
**Author:** [@AgainsttheDevil](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/AgainsttheDevil)\ **Replies:** 26\ **Last updated:** [October 31, 2026, 7:35am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/marrying-a-believer-or-unbeliever-whats-your-experience/1738 "2026-10-31T07:35:34Z")
As a single Christian navigating the dating world, I feel like I’m in a constant spiritual battle between following my heart’s immediate desires and God’s guidance for my future. I’ve witnessed friends who chose non-bel… --- ## [Good Christian Dating Sites for Over 50?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/good-christian-dating-sites-for-over-50/1829)
**Author:** [@Techonorabbit](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Techonorabbit)\ **Replies:** 13\ **Last updated:** [October 31, 2026, 6:24am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/good-christian-dating-sites-for-over-50/1829 "2026-10-31T06:24:51Z")
I’m 52 and the Christian dating platforms I’ve explored are mostly fake profiles and automated messages. Our church’s fellowship groups tend to focus on younger singles. Any good Christian dating sites for over 50? --- ## [Do People Still Wear Purity Rings?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/do-people-still-wear-purity-rings/1864)
**Author:** [@HisGrace](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/HisGrace)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [October 31, 2026, 4:06am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/do-people-still-wear-purity-rings/1864 "2026-10-31T04:06:42Z")
I’m in my thirties and I worry that wearing a purity ring might send mixed signals to potential suitors who might mistake it for a wedding band. Do Christians still recognize purity rings as a sign of waiting until marr… --- ## [Young Christian Men and Women, Where Do We Find Ya?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/young-christian-men-and-women-where-do-we-find-ya/1852)
**Author:** [@Bugeisha-Misa](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Bugeisha-Misa)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [October 31, 2026, 4:01am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/young-christian-men-and-women-where-do-we-find-ya/1852 "2026-10-31T04:01:16Z")
Young Christian men and women, where do we find ya? I’m curious where you’re spending your time outside of Sunday service. Between church and work I’m struggling with the “finding” part. --- ## [What Makes a High Quality Godly Man?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-makes-a-high-quality-godly-man/1842)
**Author:** [@His-Teaching](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/His-Teaching)\ **Replies:** 14\ **Last updated:** [October 31, 2026, 1:10am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-makes-a-high-quality-godly-man/1842 "2026-10-31T01:10:40Z")
Our modern culture has reshaped what we think about a ‘high-quality’ Christian man. Jesus chose fishermen and tax collectors, ordinary men. What actually makes a high-quality godly man? --- ## [Best Christian Dating Apps?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/best-christian-dating-apps/1798)
**Author:** [@Casual\_bible](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Casual_bible)\ **Replies:** 13\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 11:47pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/best-christian-dating-apps/1798 "2026-10-30T23:47:58Z")
Hi brothers and sisters in Christ! I’ve been curious about which Christian dating apps have worked well for others in our community. I know there are quite a few options out there like Christian Mingle and Upward, but I’… --- ## [How Do You Deal With Loneliness as a Single Christian?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/how-do-you-deal-with-loneliness-as-a-single-christian/1835)
**Author:** [@Aunty-Emma](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Aunty-Emma)\ **Replies:** 14\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 10:45pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/how-do-you-deal-with-loneliness-as-a-single-christian/1835 "2026-10-30T22:45:11Z")
T well-meaning advice seems to be ‘just trust God’ but that doesn’t take away the deep ache of wanting to share my life with someone. How do you deal with loneliness as a single Christian? I don’t wnat to make a hasty d… --- ## [How Do You Deal With a Crush at Church?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/how-do-you-deal-with-a-crush-at-church/1831)
**Author:** [@HappyKylie](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/HappyKylie)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 9:52pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/how-do-you-deal-with-a-crush-at-church/1831 "2026-10-30T21:52:49Z")
How do you deal with a crush at church? Caught feelings for someone at my church. During worship I catch glimpses of him across them sanctuary and my mind just wanders to ‘what if’ scenarios. I’m not sure if its a good… --- ## [Your Tips for Christian Dating?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/your-tips-for-christian-dating/1647)
**Author:** [@IndigenousKemetic](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/IndigenousKemetic)\ **Replies:** 35\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 9:50pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/your-tips-for-christian-dating/1647 "2026-10-30T21:50:11Z")
I found myself in a wonderful relationship last year, and while things were going great with my partner, I kept feeling this pull to learn from others who’d walked this path before. Having experienced both the joys and c… --- ## [Do We Stay Married in Heaven?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/do-we-stay-married-in-heaven/1792)
**Author:** [@Nastaran](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Nastaran)\ **Replies:** 13\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 9:31pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/do-we-stay-married-in-heaven/1792 "2026-10-30T21:31:13Z")
If you marry here on Earth and you go to heaven… do you both stay married in heaven? What about people who remarry? --- ## [Why Do Christian Singles Groups Fade Away?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/why-do-christian-singles-groups-fade-away/1839)
**Author:** [@KindEscape](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/KindEscape)\ **Replies:** 11\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 7:44pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/why-do-christian-singles-groups-fade-away/1839 "2026-10-30T19:44:30Z")
Why do Christian singles groups fade away? The last one I joined was meeting in a church basement, sweet people but after a year, everyone just drifted apart. Funny enough, I saw some familiar faces from those groups on … --- ## [Christian Mingle Reviews?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/christian-mingle-reviews/1797)
**Author:** [@EssentialPurity](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/EssentialPurity)\ **Replies:** 15\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 7:38pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/christian-mingle-reviews/1797 "2026-10-30T19:38:51Z")
I’ve been wrestling with the idea of joining Christian Mingle in my search for a God-centered relationship. The enemy wants us to feel ashamed about seeking connection online, but I believe God can work through any mediu… --- ## [What Is Biblical Submission in a Marriage?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-is-biblical-submission-in-a-marriage/1855)
**Author:** [@GodisReal](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/GodisReal)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 5:38pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-is-biblical-submission-in-a-marriage/1855 "2026-10-30T17:38:47Z")
I keep hearing about this idea of biblical submission lately, especially as my relationship with my partner grows more serious. So I went to scripture. When Paul talks about marriage in Ephesians, he spends more time t… --- ## [Are Girlfriend Applications Good for Christian Dating?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/are-girlfriend-applications-good-for-christian-dating/1848)
**Author:** [@JustPray](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/JustPray)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 5:17pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/are-girlfriend-applications-good-for-christian-dating/1848 "2026-10-30T17:17:28Z")
I hadn’t heard of this before but apparently it is all the rage. Women are using detailed questionnaires in their dating profiles now, girlfriend applications basically. Do they help Christian dating or get in the way of… --- ## [Bible Study Ideas for Couples](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/bible-study-ideas-for-couples/1744)
**Author:** [@Korean\_Church](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Korean_Church)\ **Replies:** 23\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 4:30pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/bible-study-ideas-for-couples/1744 "2026-10-30T16:30:08Z")
Does anyone have ideas for Bible study ideas for couples? If both sides are individually studying the Bible and going to studies themselves, can they can avoid problems like this but maybe even help each other put God a… --- ## [Is a Pastor Necessary for a Christian Wedding?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/is-a-pastor-necessary-for-a-christian-wedding/1790)
**Author:** [@KeptForJesus](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/KeptForJesus)\ **Replies:** 14\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 3:08pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/is-a-pastor-necessary-for-a-christian-wedding/1790 "2026-10-30T15:08:29Z")
If a traditional church wedding isn’t financially possible… do you need a pastor to marry you? We know in our hearts that marriage is ultimately about the covenant before God, and we’re wondering if having a small, priv… --- ## [How Do You Resist Dating Non-Believers?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/how-do-you-resist-dating-non-believers/1862)
**Author:** [@Bugeisha-Misa](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Bugeisha-Misa)\ **Replies:** 9\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 2:45pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/how-do-you-resist-dating-non-believers/1862 "2026-10-30T14:45:35Z")
Has anyone ever been tempted to date a non-believer? How do you resist the temptation to date non-believers when the Christian dating pool seems so limited? --- ## [What Qualities Should I Look for in a Christian Wife?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-qualities-should-i-look-for-in-a-christian-wife/1837)
**Author:** [@Holy\_Spirits](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Holy_Spirits)\ **Replies:** 12\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 10:56am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-qualities-should-i-look-for-in-a-christian-wife/1837 "2026-10-30T10:56:09Z")
What qualities should you look for in a Christian wife? I saw we had a thread on the other side of this so let’s balance the scales a little. --- ## [How Does the Upward Dating App Work?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/how-does-the-upward-dating-app-work/1846)
**Author:** [@AngelLover](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/AngelLover)\ **Replies:** 10\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 10:17am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/how-does-the-upward-dating-app-work/1846 "2026-10-30T10:17:30Z")
I’ve been trying out Upward lately and I’m a bit confused about how the likes system works. How does the Upward dating app work, and do likes disappear if you don’t upgrade? I have used old dating sites but I will admit… --- ## [Praying to God for a Specific Person?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/praying-to-god-for-a-specific-person/1785)
**Author:** [@Fight\_Satan](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Fight_Satan)\ **Replies:** 17\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 8:10am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/praying-to-god-for-a-specific-person/1785 "2026-10-30T08:10:55Z")
I know some people might pray for love or pray for marriage but… can you pray to God for a specific person? --- ## [What Does the Bible Say About Having Children vs Not Having Children?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-does-the-bible-say-about-having-children-vs-not-having-children/1776)
**Author:** [@TrueChristian](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/TrueChristian)\ **Replies:** 18\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 5:22am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-does-the-bible-say-about-having-children-vs-not-having-children/1776 "2026-10-30T05:22:43Z")
With so many people intentionally choosing not to have children in this “modern world” what does the Bible say about having children or intentionally choosing not to have children? --- ## [Where Can I Meet Single Christian Men Besides Church?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/where-can-i-meet-single-christian-men-besides-church/1853)
**Author:** [@Tristoper](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Tristoper)\ **Replies:** 8\ **Last updated:** [October 30, 2026, 3:33am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/where-can-i-meet-single-christian-men-besides-church/1853 "2026-10-30T03:33:26Z")
Where can I meet single Christian men besides church? I’m in transition between churches right now and the dating apps have left me feeling discouraged. Is there any other option in this day and age? --- ## [Bible Verses for Tough Times in a Relationship](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/bible-verses-for-tough-times-in-a-relationship/1833)
**Author:** [@OceanPoet](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/OceanPoet)\ **Replies:** 16\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2026, 10:40pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/bible-verses-for-tough-times-in-a-relationship/1833 "2026-10-29T22:40:18Z")
I’ve been going through some relationship challenges lately and turning to Scripture for comfort. What Bible verses have helped you through tough times in a relationship? --- ## [Kissing Before Marriage?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/kissing-before-marriage/1652)
**Author:** [@Casual\_bible](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Casual_bible)\ **Replies:** 24\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2026, 10:23pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/kissing-before-marriage/1652 "2026-10-29T22:23:52Z")
I’ve been blessed with a wonderful Christian upbringing, but I’ve been struggling with questions about physical boundaries in dating relationships. My recent breakup has made me reflect deeply on whether I crossed any l… --- ## [What Does the Bible Say about Remarriage after Infidelity?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-does-the-bible-say-about-remarriage-after-infidelity/1743)
**Author:** [@ChapBobL](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/ChapBobL)\ **Replies:** 25\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2026, 7:56pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/what-does-the-bible-say-about-remarriage-after-infidelity/1743 "2026-10-29T19:56:56Z")
My heart has been so ~heavy~ lately, wrestling with some deep questions about marriage and forgiveness. If a spouse breaks their vows through infidelity and tries to follow God’s path of forgiveness, I keep wondering wh… --- ## [Hebrews 13 Meaning "The Marriage Bed Undefiled"](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/hebrews-13-meaning-the-marriage-bed-undefiled/1737)
**Author:** [@His-Teaching](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/His-Teaching)\ **Replies:** 19\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2026, 5:44pm UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/hebrews-13-meaning-the-marriage-bed-undefiled/1737 "2026-10-29T17:44:41Z")
As a Christian woman approaching marriage, I’ve been looking at what constitutes a God-honoring intimate relationship within marriage. While Scripture clearly condemns adultery and certain sexual sins, I find myself wond… --- ## [Is It Still Adultery Without Marriage?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/is-it-still-adultery-without-marriage/1788)
**Author:** [@zephyredx](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/zephyredx)\ **Replies:** 14\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2026, 10:04am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/is-it-still-adultery-without-marriage/1788 "2026-10-29T10:04:41Z")
Is it still adultery if one or both of you is not married? If my partner cheated on me when we were dating or engaged but not actually married, is it still adultery to God? --- ## [Marriage Counseling for Christians?](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/marriage-counseling-for-christians/1649)
**Author:** [@Amber-Apologetics](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/u/Amber-Apologetics)\ **Replies:** 34\ **Last updated:** [October 29, 2026, 9:02am UTC](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/t/marriage-counseling-for-christians/1649 "2026-10-29T09:02:07Z")
Brothers and sisters in Christ, I’ve been thinking a lot about marriage counseling lately and how it seems to be the go-to advice in our community. While I’m grateful that God has provided us with these resources for hea… [Next page](https://forum.victoriousinprayer.com/c/christian-dating/10.md?page=1)