Hey everyone, I’ve been thinking about this whole “who should make the first move” thing in Christian dating.
While I totally respect the biblical principle of male leadership in relationships, I sometimes wonder if we’re being too rigid about who can initiate that first conversation or show initial interest. From my experience, some of the most genuine connections I’ve had started when a girl felt comfortable enough to express interest first, without all the pressure and pretense that sometimes comes with traditional pursuing.
When there’s no agenda and you’re just being yourself, I feel like that’s when real, authentic connections can form. Whether it’s the guy or the girl who takes that first step. I believe God can work through either person to start something beautiful, as long as both hearts are in the right place and following His guidance.
Am I alone on this? Should I just wait for the guy to make the first move as a Christian?