Is Christian Connection Dating Site a Scam? (Christian Opinions Only)

I’ve been using Christian Connection for a few months now, and I have to say, the experience has left me feeling pretty discouraged about the whole concept of online Christian dating. How can we build genuine connections when basic communication is locked behind a paywall?

It feels like your average secular dating app (Hinge, Tinder, Bumble etc…) but with a cheap gimmick to get Christians to pay for it.

I’d love to hear some other opinions on this, though. Especially if Christian Connection actually worked for anyone else.

The subscription fees are steep compared to mainstream dating apps, and what’s worse is that both parties need to be paying members to have a conversation. Isn’t this just creating unnecessary barriers between believers seeking meaningful relationships?

As a guy in my mid-twenties, I’ve noticed that the age demographics seem heavily skewed, making it challenging to find matches within my age range. Shouldn’t a Christian dating platform cater to believers of all ages equally?

The whole setup feels more like a business venture than a ministry to help Christians find their life partners. Whatever happened to the simple days of meeting people through church activities and community events? I think I’ll focus more on building organic relationships through my local church community from now on, though I’ll be careful not to make my home church uncomfortable by treating it like a dating pool. Wouldn’t it be better to trust God’s timing and traditional Christian communities rather than these profit-driven platforms?

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I’ve had similar thoughts about these faith-based dating platforms.

You make a good point about feeling more like a business than a ministry. When both people need paid subscriptions to have a conversation, it does seem to create unnecessary obstacles for Christians trying to connect with potential partners.

The age demographics issue is pretty common with niche dating sites like this - since there’s a smaller pool of users, you’ll often find certain age groups over-represented while others are harder to find matches in.

Whether or not it is a scam… I’ll leave for some others to decide. I think it’s a business practice but targeting Christians feels… wrong.

I think focusing more on church and community events makes a lot of sense. While online dating can work for some, there’s something special about meeting people naturally through shared faith activities. Just being careful, as you mentioned, not treating the church as a dating pool is wise. Sometimes, trusting in God’s timing while staying active in the Christian community can lead to more meaningful connections than trying to force things through paid platforms.

I’ve noticed the same issues with age demographics. It can be really discouraging when you’re trying to find matches in your age range, only to find the user base skewed in a different direction. This seems to be a common problem with niche dating platforms, not just Christian Connection.

As believers, we’re called to be equally yoked in our relationships, which makes finding the right partner important. While online platforms can be one way to meet other Christians, they shouldn’t be our only avenue.

Your point about focusing on organic relationships through church communities makes sense - there’s something special about connecting with people naturally through shared faith and activities.

That said, I think it’s wise that you’re being mindful about not treating your church like a dating pool. Finding the balance between being open to connections while respecting the primary purpose of church community matters. Sometimes, trusting in God’s timing and staying active in faith-based communities can lead to more meaningful relationships than any dating app could provide.

I understand your concerns about Christian Connection, and based on recent experiences shared by others, it seems the platform has some genuine issues with inactive profiles and communication barriers.

While some members have found success and even marriage through the site, many share your frustration about the steep subscription fees and the requirement for both parties to pay just to talk.

While the stats show some folks do find love there, I understand why the double paywall and age demographics make it frustrating, especially for us twenty-somethings trying to connect authentically. Meeting people through church community while trusting God’s timing feels more natural - remember to keep your focus on worship first, potential romance second!

The devil wants to keep believers apart with paywalls and profit schemes, but God’s plan for finding love is bigger than any dating site - trust in His timing while staying active in your church community, just as countless Christians found their spouses before the internet existed.

Thank you Lord for leading me to my husband through OkCupid - it worked well for us as Christians because the detailed questions about faith and values (like believing in Noah’s flood) really helped filter matches, plus it was free to use!

I think Christian Connection has worked for some members, but, like any of these apps, it takes some time and effort. They are tools, not quick-fix solutions.

Also mainstream dating sites can be great for meeting other believers if you use the filtering tools wisely and trust God’s guidance. May He guide you to find the right platform and person in His perfect timing, Amen!

I’ve tried Christian Connection, too, and found it pretty frustrating…

United Young might be worth checking out, though, as their profile setup seems more focused on genuine connections… As others have mentioned, being involved in multiple church communities seems to be the best way to meet someone naturally while still keeping our focus on worship rather than viewing church as just a dating pool…

While many dating apps promise to help find a godly match, most seem to fall short of expectations.

For me Upward works (even if I don’t pay) but it takes a lot of patience.

As Proverbs 19:21 reminds us, ‘Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.’ Even Christian-focused apps and church communities can feel discouraged when seeking a partner who truly shares our values and faith. Finding someone who aligns with our spiritual walk can be difficult, but we must remember that God’s timing is perfect, as written in Ecclesiastes 3:1, ‘There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens.

At 30, I’m walking this Christian path, staying pure and faithful. It’s hard sometimes seeing everyone else paired up while I’m still searching for a godly man who wants marriage and commitment, not just casual dating.

It’s frustrating because people assume all single women my age have wild pasts, but some of us have been trying to honor God this whole time - just waiting and praying for the right person to come along, still trusting His timing even when it feels lonely.

Hey, I’ve been thinking about this too - if we’re dating as Christians, shouldn’t it be with marriage in mind?

Like, if you don’t feel mature enough for marriage yet, maybe it’s a bit early to be looking for someone on Christian dating sites. Just feels like we should be intentional about relationships rather than just dating for fun, you know?

Found some awesome Christian groups online instead of dating apps! Making friends and talking about Jesus in a chill way Maybe God will bring someone special along the way! No pressure, just faith and fellowship! Amen!

Gather with fellow believers in intimate study and fellowship, for it is through these sacred circles that your faith shall flourish and divine connections shall emerge.

The Lord has ordained such gatherings as vessels for deeper understanding, where kindred spirits unite in His truth and lasting bonds are forged according to His purpose.

Consider opening your heart to serving alongside others through church ministry or community outreach. When we give of ourselves together, we naturally discover the character of those around us - their values, their compassion, their devotion to living out God’s call.

In sharing these sacred moments of service, you may find your spirits drawing closer, united in purpose and faith. What beautiful connections can bloom when two hearts beat as one in service to others.