I find it really disheartening how some Christians treat single moms in the dating world, acting like we’re somehow “damaged goods” or less worthy of finding love again. (And don’t even get me started on the judgmental comments about “poor life choices.”)
Look, I get that not everyone wants to date someone with kids, and that’s totally fine - preferences are preferences. But there’s a huge difference between having a dating preference and making someone feel like they’re spiritually inferior because they had children before fully embracing Christ’s path.
God’s grace is powerful enough to transform any life, and my journey to faith has made me an even better mother and potential partner. My past doesn’t define my future, and I’m grateful that God sees me as His beloved daughter, not as a collection of previous mistakes.